The media stereotypes Black boys as dangerous and lacking discipline and etiquette. But in fact, they are descendants of Kings and Queens and should feel proud of where they came from and where they're going. However, navigating from one world to another-like boyhood to manhood-can be disorienting and uncomfortable. It doesn't have to be uncomfortable, though. The Manners Playbook is full of guidance on approaching new situations, caring for the body, and being confidentin one's self while practicing good etiquette in new situations and relationships.

- James B. Wingo